So, let’s get this out of the way: Patrick and I are back together.
Neither of us is absolutely certain it’s going to be the right thing (who ever has the luxury of certainty?), but it most definitely feels right to try again.
I couldn’t spend any more time wondering, “What if I’d [insert your choice [...]

Furthering the slightly nostalgic theme of yesterday:
I was really lucky when I came out, save the ongoing parent issues. Six months after I came out, my best friend came out as a lesbian. A year after that, our best friend came out as gay. One more year, and another close friend was out, too. By [...]

I sometimes don’t blog because nothing’s going on. Now I’m dragging my feet because there’s too much to say.
I can’t decide if I’m suffering from a bastard relative of writers’ block (bloggers’ block?), or if I just don’t want to take the mental energy to actually write something.
I guess it would be more appropriate (and [...]

The trip to NYC was fun; I had a great time!
I realize my blogging has become more of a weekly thing than a daily thing, and I’m sorry; there’s just a lot going on right now.
Long story short is Patrick and I are discussing getting back together. We’ve hit a few roadblocks though, and I’m [...]

Today is the 5-year anniversary of my coming out to my parents.
Like most people reflecting on an anniversary, I’m surprised it’s been five years.
Back in 1998, I was 17 and four days past my junior year of high school. It was a Thursday evening, about 6:30, and pouring rain. After hours of discussion and [...]

Sorry I’ve been gone all week.
I’ve been too busy figuring out some things to worry about finding something worth blogging about.
But I’ll be back soon, I promise. Hopefully with some answers. Or at least at peace with the fact that I don’t have the answers.
You’d probably already figured out why I was gone, after that [...]