And you thought I was kidding with that title.
But, no.
Though I do have to make it clear that the picture is NOT ME!
I didn’t actually leave my pants in SF; it would be more appropriate to say I took them off in San Francisco. For extended periods of time. In front of strangers. But that’s [...]

I’m guilty of watching Newlyweds again. So sue me.
Jessica: Aren’t you going to open the [car] door for me?
Nick: No.
Jessica: Gosh, at the beginning of our marriage you were eager to open doors for me!
Nick: At the beginning of our marriage, I got laid.

For an explanation about Geoffrey, click here.
Wed. 30 Jan 1991
I have just about run out of resources to help me get my things out of the house. I guess it’s true that people line up at your door if you have something they need or want. Where are those same people now that I need [...]

Patrick and I are leaving for San Francisco pride today.
See you next week—I’ll be too busy gaying it up to blog!

For an explanation about Geoffrey, click here.
Tues. 29 Jan 1991
House-bound for the entire day. Beside not feeling well, it was very cold out again. I get chills just sitting here thinking about going out. Ray went to the post office to pick up my mail which they didn’t have—they were attempting to deliver it again. [...]

I started working part-time at a business here in town that my extended family owns, mostly to fill some time but also for extra money now that I have to pay for the upcoming trip to San Francisco.
It’s honestly kind of fun, too. I’m out at work and almost all the straight high school kids [...]

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Mon. 28 Jan 1991
Three weeks of this diary and I can’t help but wonder how much of it seems the same. I’m afraid today won’t sound very different. My energy seemed at an all-time low today. I was supposed to go to the AIDS Foundation today but couldn’t deal [...]

Today is my sweetie, Patrick’s, 22nd birthday. Now that he has entered the Birthdays Beyond Reason zone, he too will understand that we are both old, old men just waiting for our turns to die.
To him, I explain:
The BBR zone applies to any age after 21, because after that you might as well [...]

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Sun. 27 Jan 1991
Yea, and cry unto God for all thy support; yea, let all thy doings be unto the Lord, and whithersoever thou goest let it be in the Lord; yea, let all thy thoughts be directed unto the Lord; yea, let the affections of thy heart be [...]

Today is the 6th anniversary of my coming out to my parents. I’d come out at school and to friends several months earlier, but this was the big one.
I’m a little disturbed that I don’t have much to say about the anniversary. Maybe it’s a good thing it’s become unimportant. Or maybe I’m making it [...]