Paul Rudd was my second crush ever. It was 1995 and my best friend and I, both 14, were watching Clueless (shut up - you know you loved it at the time) at the local cineplex in order to drool over Alicia Silverstone. At least that was his reason. I went along with it because [...]

In the last year or so I’ve gotten a bit closer to a guy, “Tom,” who was originally an acquaintance but whom I would now call a friend. We met a few years ago when we were both volunteering for HIV/AIDS awareness.
Since my 8 or so years experience in the HIV arena began after widespread [...]

Just a heads-up due to today’s Oprah:
Comments about Nate Berkus that appear on posts not related to Nate will be deleted. I love him too - you know I do - but take it over to the Nate Berkus Message Board or to a Nate post, please. And yes, I do require a valid email [...]

Though it’s not like you haven’t noticed, I’m not still not blogging much lately. For once, it’s not work keeping me so occupied, either. Instead, I’m keeping myself occupied with some really really time-consuming purging.
I’m cleaning out my closets for the first time in over ten years. Yeah, I know. The clothes I found in [...]