August 11, 2005

I was right. Rendezvous provided more than a few great stories.

Unfortunately, since returning from the wide-open land of Wyoming, I’ve been working 12-hour days on a film shoot and am too tired to tell you all my sordid gay camping stories. Plus, I’m too far behind in the rest of my life to spend much time blogging. But rest assured you’ll get the juicy details soon enough, probably early next week.

I’m depressed about Peter Jennings’ death. On our last trip to New York, my friend Penny and I visited the World News Tonight set. After the broadcast, Jennings, who was at this time a year away from his cancer diagnosis, wandered over in our direction to see who we were and what we were doing there, as WNT is a closed set and normally very empty.

We introduced ourselves and spent several minutes chatting with him, just the three of us, about Salt Lake City, skiing, New York, and the news of the day. It was really quite an experience to hear that voice, in person, share his personal opinions regarding the just-broadcast major world events. And seeing that he was intently listening to our humble opinions about what we were discussing was even more unbelievable.

Of all the “famous” people I’ve worked with or spoken to, none impressed me more than Peter Jennings. Seriously. Obviously intelligent and super-talented (did you see him on 9/11? On-air for 16 hours straight?), his humility and friendly regular-guy attitude made me a devoted WNT viewer.

A friend at ABC News told me once how ABC staffers had to watch Peter closely because he was liable to open suspicious boxes addressed to him from fans, or eat homemade cookies mailed from Grandma Public in Des Moines. It certainly wasn’t that he was naive, but rather that he considered himself just another regular guy doing a job. His job just happened to involve fan mail. For a guy like Peter Jennings, there was no reason to think the fan mail was anything but innocent.

The same friend also told me my favorite Jennings story: A few years ago there was a bus-stop poster at Columbus Avenue and about 66th Street (just outside ABC studios) that advertised World News Tonight. The ad included a large portrait of Peter Jennings and for months ABC staffers watched a seemingly-eccentric woman come by each afternoon and tape a carnation to the poster, on Peter’s lapel. After several weeks of this, Peter decided to go down and meet his carnation lady. A number of people tried to talk him out it, of course, but he wasn’t dissuaded and the next time she came by and began to put up the flower, Peter went down and had a conversation with her. He wasn’t worried about his safety or encouraging her strange behavior. Always the journalist, he was curious about who she was and why she took the time to do this. Needless to say, nothing bad happened because of his inquiry, and I don’t even remember what Peter and the woman talked about or if he got his answers. What matters is that regular-guy Peter Jennings just wanted to understand why people were so interested in news-anchor Peter Jennings. The regular Jennings - the real Jennings - had no problem stopping in at the Upper West Side Barnes & Noble for coffee or to discuss with bookstore employees what he was currently reading.

I don’t think the media coverage of Jennings’ death has done justice to his sincerity or his truly human approachability - traits both Tom Brokaw and especially Dan Rather have always sorely lacked. The reports instead seem to hint at an on-air arrogance that I don’t think existed. It certainly didn’t exist in person. Really, I suspect it’s just another right-wing-zealot creation damning our Canadian-influenced “liberal media.”

Believe me: in person, Peter Jennings could have been one of those larger-than-life celebrities that overwhelm and drain everyone around them. Instead, he was deliberately the opposite of that. He made himself our equal, though in reality he was far above. That graciousness is the true measure of star power, and more importantly, the true measure of a human being.

4 Responses to “Peter Jennings”

  1. myke Says:

    You know, Nick, though I did not ever meet Jennings in person, I felt his sincerity from his own air personality. Truly. I’d watched him on air for years and years. I’ve always been a news hound and he always just came across to me as less arrogant, and such a straight shooter. I’m glad you got to meet him and confirmed what I always thought.

    BTW … I do think the ABC News 2 hour tribute to him was nice. I watched it all. I liked how they showed him from his home life perspective.

  2. Tin Man Says:

    I, too, have felt Jennings’s death hard. And the 2-hour tribute to him was terrific. I’m amazed that they put it together in three days and even more amazed that it ran entirely without commercials. I still have it on my TiVo, and I think I’m going to save it.

  3. Joel A Says:

    Welcome home. Can’t wait to hear about your camp stories and any (non-confidential) stories of work.

    Re: Jennings.
    I know what you mean. Because of our book business, I’ve met many authors over the years. I was constantly amazed what they were like: some, the stereotypical, arrogant, know-it-alls; others, very, very human (and FUNNY.) When I think of famous people, I remember what my spouse likes to say when posed the question about celebrities: “they all look the same on the operating table.” (The Spouse is a physician.)

  4. Anne Says:

    I majored in Journalism, and although I didn’t enter that profession, I have been a bona fide news junkie my entire life. Why? Because I saw my parents read the paper each morning, and watch the evening news each night, and I wanted to do the same. Wonder how often that happens in homes today?

    Anyway, I loved Peter Jennings. He made me forget Walter Cronkite was no longer reporting. Whenever any news was breaking, I turned to Peter. Whenever there was a State of the Union, or an inauguration, I turned to Peter. I was working in a high rise when 9/11 happened. The bldg mgmt closed the bldg..we all had to go home (which is what we wanted to do in the first place)and I watched Peter until he went off the air. I heard of his death Monday morning when NPR wakes me up each day. It was so very sad. He will be hard to replace and he went far too early. What a great experience you had, Nick, seeing a news cast! And meeting Peter! It just isn’t the same anymore.

    BTW, Tin Man, I got home from work too late to tape the 2 hour tribute. Can I send you tapes and will you please transfer the tribute for me? If so, how can I contact you? Nick has my email address and I give him permission to give it to you. I will pay for postage. And I, too, was amazed it aired commercial free. But then again, why not? It was Peter Jennings after all.

    Anne

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